Month: September 2013

To What Extent is the Addict Responsible?

Freud once commented that we are responsible for our dreams because well, who else could be responsible? This is Jewish humor, as I well know. Are we really responsible for our dreams? What actually are we responsible for and why? This is a pressing question for both husband and wife after (typically) the husband’s infidelity of one or more sorts has emerged (I must say many of the men I see have been strikingly lax in trying to cover their tracks). Is the husband bad or sick or both or something else or what?
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How Does Change Occur in Psychotherapy?

I think it will be helpful to me and to prospective and beginning clients to try to provide an overview of how I think about …

Make-Believe in the Addiction Treatment Industry

Therapists shouldn’t be in the business of make-believe. There is a great deal of make-believe in the addiction treatment …

Magical Thinking About Drinking

Most of the people I see who have serious drinking problems express the hope that they can over time acquire the ability …